A Swinger’s Life
Hi,
Barry here again. This is my first solo post. For those Christians out there reading this, yes you can call me evil but don’t blame Chris and Glenn for this, those wimps don’t agree with me but at least they let me write. Here’s my story:
Me and my wife are swingers. Is that shocking? I bet so. What do I mean by swinger? We have sex with other people. I bet most of you don’t believe me, but it doesn’t matter to me, ‘cuz when you hear the details you’ll see it’s true. And it’s true.
How did it start? Me and my wife have a great marriage, including a great sex life. We don’t need anybody or anything else. We trust each other. My wife went out with some girlfriends a few times and they ended up at a strip club a few times. Yes, they were female strippers, and they just had a laugh. Did I mind? No. We started talking about if she liked women, and she said yeah, she did. So we decided to try and find another woman to play with. Ends up, it’s pretty hard to find a single woman that will play but isn’t actually a lesbian looking for a long term relationship. So we signed up on a website that has “couples seeking couples”.
Sorry to say, but I won’t be giving you explicit sexual details. But we did end up finding a couple, chatting online, meeting at a restaurant, going to a strip club for a bit, and then renting a room. We were both super nervous so weren’t able to perform much but “Wow!” we really had fun. The next day back home, we were all smiles with each other and found that we were really drawing even closer together as a couple as we talked about our freaky night.
Since then, we’ve had a 3-some with another woman, and 3 other couples. We’ve found that most people aren’t really ready to swing ‘cuz one partner is usually worried the other will have too much fun or something, or the person is looking for something very specific but won’t come out and say it. Me and my wife are just looking for fun and excitement, aren’t stuck on specific actions or whatever and aren’t jealous. When we’ve been with others with the same view, it’s been SO MUCH FUN!
Do you need to be totally sexy to be a swinger? Nope. Swingers come in all shapes, sizes and ages. We’ve been to a couple swingers clubs and now that we’re not so nervous, we’ll probably enjoy the clubs the next time we make it to one. But there are all types of people there.
So yes, we are still “on the market” and still chatting with new people, and arranging get togethers. Could we quit at any time? Yes. Are we having the most fun ever right now? Yes.
Whatever floats your boat. I can understand why people try it out.